when does one feel left out in love?

10 probing ideas on how to detect if your partner makes you feel left out:

1. lover doesn't answer your queries;
2. lover doesn't always greet you and asks your whereabouts;
3. doesn't display affection among friends and families;
4. doesn't let you into their world;
5. doesn't comment on what is happening about you;
6. is never attentive of your wants and needs;
7. never listens to your flaws and opinions;
8. gives a one sided piece of advice;
9.likes to do what he usually prefers to do without asking first from you; and
10. is never willing to understand you.

Which of the following number answers your dilemma? If you feel almost all of it, then its time to find someone new that is more deserving of your love and attention.

POEMS: love on the net

We live far apart
And have never met
Just talked on the phone
And chat on the net.

Yet, I feel for you
As I've not felt
This love is so strong
My heart may melt.

I want to hold you
To never let go
Be together forever
And feel the love grow.

I'm trying to show
The way that I feel
Yet words can't describe
This love is so real.

by: Kathy Porter
404 E 3rd ave s
Aurora MN 55705

http://www.minibite.com/justabuck.htm

we feel we are romantically involved with this someone we love but the bottom line is we are just born romantic, so our feelings are expressed through words that somehow our loved ones would also feel how we treasured them.

the thing we called love

i will be here
when stars fall down from the sky
i will be here
even if u don't ask me to

i keep the faith you willingly give
push you when you're down and weary
love you unconditionally
together we'll set sail on
this i want to be
forever in your life

Finding our soulmates.............

Which of the following descriptions of a soul mate applies to you ?

• Reincarnation: Some believe that a soul mate is someone with whom a person has shared other life times through reincarnation.

  The soul mate could be a friend, business partner, parent, child, sibling, spouse or other family member. These soul mates can be of the same or opposite sex.

• Other Half: Others believe, like the ancient Greek philosopher Plato, that a soul mate is a person's "other half". This concept was the basis of the movie, The Butcher's Wife where the idea of "split-aparts" searching for one another was explored. People all over the world believe that we are all searching for someone to make us whole and to share our journey of life with.
• A dictionary definition is: One of two persons compatible with each other in disposition, point of view, or sensitivity. Someone for whom you have a deep affinity. A person temperamentally suited to another.
• Predestination: The movie Still Breathing examines the thought that people are drawn together as soul mates by destiny or fate and that being with our soul mate is something we have no control over. This idea of predestination and connection even after death between soul mates was also examined in the movie What Dreams May Come.
• Making Life Come to Life: Richard Bach describes soul mates as "A soulmate is someone who has the locks to fit our keys, and the keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we; we can be loved for who we are and for who we're pretending to be. Each of us unveils the best part of one another. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person were safe in our paradise. Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we're two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we've found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life. "
• Profound Connection: Thomas Moore, in his book Soul Mates: Honoring the Mysteries of Love and Relationship, page xvii, describes a soul mate as "someone to whom we feel profoundly connected, as though the communication and communing that take place between us were not the product of intentional efforts, but rather a divine grace. This kind of relationship is so important to the soul that many have said there is nothing more precious in life."

Soul Mates

The Soul Mate Myth & Challenges in Soul Mate Marriages

By Sheri & Bob Stritof, About.com

quote of the day

"Better be despised for too anxious apprehensions, than ruined by too confident security."
-Edmund Burke

Some people find peace in their hearts when they let loose of themselves on thoughts and actions. To others it may seem a big question mark. Why create chaos to others rather than by simply hid it inside them?

People may act impulsively on things that matters to them most. Human beings are vulnerable and as we know we are also created uniquely. With this principle we may act on different manner depending on what we feel at the moment.

unexpected love

love comes when least expected
it always surprises us

with two people sharing warm friendship
expect kindle relationship

these blossom and create
a foundling love and affection

love is enormous
and unconditional if shared with openness

gives life for everyone
and a feeling of fulfillment

because the beauty of love
always come unexpectedly into our lives.

Who We Are Today?

For awhile, life seems to have special reasons for us to reflect of how and what we have become today. Have we been changed by what made us tick? What had happened to us? Have we changed for the better or for worse?

After years of surviving the new world we belong today, we find ourselves new individuals. An individual we never expected to become. Have we become more aggresive to the challenges thrown to us? Or have we just played by the rules?

Time makes us old, but with the beating of our hearts it inspires us to show assertiveness. Keeps us always on top whatever our chosen career may be now. Who we are today? Simply states how we have become new as a person and as our personalities changed from the trials and experiences we have learned.