Is this real love?

When do you begin to say that what you're feeling now is really love?

We always fall in love with men on whom we thought he had all the ideals we have in mind but when we get to know him better we are surprised with what's in him that we had at first sight thought him to have passed all those criterias we have in mind. It was just simply an infatuation. In reality, we often look for it in the man but due to limited numbers of men in the area we often single out the man among the rest.

So, when do you begin to say that what you're feeling now is really love?

Maybe, when you also feel that he begins to care. Its not just about giving attention but also sincerity of that person towards you. Simply said but others don't follow the same rules. Anyways, it becomes a give and take relationship now. You begin to be in one with him.

Love never limits you. Its does not control us but it gives us strength to support each other. It would be selfishness if we try to control the person we love. Our loved one is not a robot that we try to control whatever he does in life.

Respect of each other's opinion matters, also. There are times when men wants their women to just listen to them. Give them time to be heard! There is a right time for everything if not this time then maybe later.

Finding love is never too easy. There are lots of trials around. But with two people sharing and acknowledging each others weaknesses and strengths it is a good attitude to start a relationship because you may never know what may have happened without trying it first. It is really a risk. At the end, we always find it fulfilling to learn to love and felt loved.